Office lunch.

Posted in Business, Misanthropy, Work with tags , , , , , , , on May 21, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST


Recently someone close to me had a problem with her co-workers, she works in the event industry. And an event was what reminded her that these are her colleagues and not her friends. I’d still consider myself a misanthrope even after becoming a more social animal.

Recent events have reminded me the same, that these are co-workers and not my friends. I enjoy working with them and like them but our relationship is strictly professional. I’ll go out for a meal with them but that’s as far as it will go.

We sit around a glass table to eat, relaxing on the office chairs and  sofa talking. Or we go out to eat, the boss has purchased my lunch quite a bit which is nice of her but again this likely stems from the fact that I’m making money. 

We’ve worked together previously but I doubt that counts for much. I knew the other for around five years if we exclude the times when our paths deviated. There’s one less at the glass table now and that opens opportunities.

It still feels like a shark tank at times. There is a level of pressure with deadlines, investigation and obviously paying the rent but it’s an interesting environment. I think I realised that it was what I wanted to do when I instantly stepped back into the shark tank and acclimatised to it. 

The other thing is that I can potentially have a second job should I want it. The sales manager position is still in my name. I’ve told my old boss we would discuss revisions if applicable when he returns from South America. A place I’d like to be. If the price is right I wouldn’t mind working there on weekends. I’ll see how it goes but I’m not sure I need it. 

As we sit around the table, eating and laughing, discussing whatever. I remember I am still at work. Also that I can’t afford to be neutral on a moving train. I quite enjoy working as part of a team, small team but I will never mistake my employer or my co-worker as a friend.

-Misanthropist.

Wealth and opportunity as a get out of jail free card.

Posted in Legal, Misanthropy, People with tags , , , , , , on May 21, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST


As I get older I notice there’s a great disparity in British society, it’s always been quite evident. It doesn’t even annoy me it’s just something that is a part of life not just here but everywhere. Then there are some instances that are almost a smack in the face to you. 

I remember during the riots in London that young man who stole a bag of rice from a Tesco by walking in the door. He committed a crime though I hardly believe a bag of rice is something the courts should involve themselves in. I’m quite sure he served time where a fine would be appropriate. Now the judges daughter who stole a large amount from a sports store did no time whatsoever. The amount would warrant the courts involvement. Also the damage to the building.

Then I read about this student from a wealthy family who has a history of drug abuse, and a history of violence. She has aspirations of becoming a heart surgeon. So stabbing someone is okay. Apparently it would detrimental for her to go to prison. You know what I’d be called in that situation, a dangerous and violent drug addict.

To clear the record I have nothing against wealthy people. I’ve loved one and her intelligence and poise was refreshing. She also maintained a down to earth attitude despite being slightly odd. I’ve seen how you live and I’m sure either yourself of someone in your family earned it. What I am against however is when your wealth and the opportunity provided to you allows you to escape punishment.

The reality that these people live in is far removed from our own, there is a desparity in their treatment by the law which is supposed to be blind. I agree leniency is appropriate in some cases but not when you’ve stabbed someone in the leg. No amount of wealth should allow you to escape an offence such as this.

What message does that send? 

-Misanthropist

The General Election.

Posted in Politics with tags , , on May 21, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST


Now I was anti Brexit and I always will be. I feel that we’ve basically shot ourselves in the foot. Brexit is over now, a mistake to be undone in the future if possible. What we have on our hands now is a General Election. I hope everyone reading this goes and votes, informs themselves and makes whatever they feel is the best choice for themselves. 

In my case I am undecided all I know is this our chance to get rid of Theresa May for good and a Conservative government under her. I’m by no means a fan of the Conservative party but at least Cameron had competency. I read many headlines about a future under May. One that what freedom we are reasonably give is slowly eroded further than it has already been. Either that or I’m angry about the porn. 


I’m concerned that the snoopers charter was passed into law. I read that the government want to block anything they deem damaging. I’m concerned about the language used it is very broad and in law broad language allows for abuse. I cannot see why any working class person would vote Conservative. Even still a Conservative government with May at the helm.

To me a vote outside of the main parties, in our current climate, would be a wasted one. It’s either going to be Labour or Liberal Democrats. The only two parties that I believe have the ability to fix this mess or make the best of it. I’m hesitant to trust the Lib Dems and won’t be won over by legal cannabis. I must say I’m still happy they’re not voting Tory.

Of course my NHS is something I want to keep. It is not perfect by any means but deserves more love and we need to spend some more money on her. The alternative is basically unthinkable for many families on the breadline and would be damaging across the board. 


I’m not even much of a fan of England, it’s made acceptable for me by being busy, earning money having that beautiful European woman in my life. She’d likely be in London right now with me if not for the clusterfuck caused by the Brexit. So yeah I’m slightly salty. Even still I don’t see a bright future for anyone who isn’t already in the sunshine under the Conservatives.

I urge you all to vote. This is your chance to get rid of an incompetent prime minster, who is poised to erode what little freedom you maintain in this country. Who is afraid to face the British public let alone take a question. Just read up on her if you’re not from England. You’ll see why this is important to me. She is and always was a poor fit to be a leader. She was never elected as one either.

To the UK residents reading this, she basically couldn’t organise a piss up in a brewery. However you vote use it wisely. Don’t let Her win. 

-Misanthropist.

Velocity.

Posted in Legal, Misanthropy, People, Relationships, Work with tags , , , , , , , on May 21, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST


Well a lot has changed since I last wrote anything here, that is primarily the reason for my absence. Much has changed. I am back in work, within law and quite enjoying doing so. There’s also a good chance for progression and as of recently I’ve decided law is what I want to go into at any level. 

I’m not too worried about money now as I have enough to live comfortably for myself. Women, there are some amazing ones in my life and I feel that I cannot complain about much. I’m better off than I was the last time I wrote anything. I have a few plans for what I’m going to do next. What woman I want and much more. 

I still dislike Sundays even a nice one like this has been. I’ve sat in the sun. Had some beers, a smoke and did some research. Clothes, pressed and ready. Lunch already made. I’m finished so early in the evening. Just have to take a shower soon. Then in the morning back to work, the only work I’ve ever enjoyed.

I cannot wait to get paid. I need a suit. I already have it picked out of course. After payday I have no worries whatsoever financially speaking. Also my contract is up so a new phone. Only real bills I have to pay out are a phone bill and a little owed. I’ll likely require an accountant at one point.

The only thing about working in this field is it attracts some cut throat people. Like a co-worker whom I’ve known for since I studied. Attempted to steal from the boss by manipulating me into doing bringing the information out of the building unwittingly.  Didn’t work, there’s very little to report due to my preventing it from ever happening. She was leaving the same day. 

Won’t be an issue. It’s just that I once  saw her as a friend, the audacity of this woman. To believe she could pull that off she must think I’m stupid. She either would have gotten away with it or I would be thrown under the bus. I admit I was firstly tempted to go about retaliating by destroying her chances of a career and ruining her relationship with many people. I’d rather let her scuttle out of my sight. Misanthropy is alive and well.

I’m set for management all going well. I’m capable of training and learning more than my boss ever expected. I’ve also shown my boss new resources and methods to prevent fraud and get information. So she’s quite happy with me right now. 

The only unfortunate thing is that work is now a large part of my life. I have a plan and an idea of the woman I’d like in it but I’m very much forced to split my time. Some luxuries I’m afforded include doing my own work and out of hours work. I’m still very much focused on refining myself and honing what the skills that got me here. 

I have a plan A, B and C. So even if something were to go wrong I’d have options. I’ve received messages with job offers from other companies. People know my work, likely affiliated with partners. In a few months time I’ll likely be looking for my own place. I leapt basically.

This is where I landed.

-Misanthropist.

Posted in General on May 14, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST

“I take pleasure…in the polish and finesse which I can bring to my operations…to impart an absolute rightness, a high elegance, to the exaction of my affairs. Each day…I try to set myself still higher standards of subtlety and technical polish so that each of my proceedings may be a work of art, bearing my signature.”

Misanthropist.

And so it ends.

Posted in Uncategorized on April 13, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=JSUIQgEVDM4

A positive.

Posted in Relationships, women with tags , , , , on April 12, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST

I have managed a plus out of all this, I met a lovely woman who I would say I respect and admire. There was some progress with her but it’s too soon to tell if it matters less than I believe or maybe it’ll change in the future. I will be genuinely upset if it goes nowhere but yeah I’m pretty sure its not something you do with everyone.

I find myself genuinely caring what she thinks about me. Enough to explain myself. I also find myself caring when she feels bad. She has her days despite being as strong as she is. I actually find myself missing her when she’s away. I developed feelings for her quite quickly, which isn’t normal for me, I liked her a lot when we met but I’m guessing that grew into attraction by the way I’m talking about her. Like I said before she’s an exceptional woman and honestly I don’t see why she’s alone.

If I have my way she won’t stay that way for too long. In a way I think I’m trying to prove a point that I care about her and want her to be happy, that’s she’s wanted. I never understood why the most beautiful women think they’re ugly even when they don’t say it. Why the most most exceptional ones think they’re nothing special. She would tell me it’s all perspective. I kinda like that she’s a smart ass. Makes me smile.

I wonder where this all come from but at the same time I know. I don’t think I’ve ever met someone who is so similar to myself but different at the same time. Fucking beautiful too. She doesn’t smile much but the eyes say it all sometimes. If all goes right I could see myself being very happy with her but again it’s early days. At this point all I can do is show her I am for real.

You lose some you win some or at least make progress. I think it’s important to stress that it’s not all shit. 

-Misanthropist.