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She comes around again.

Posted in women with tags , , , , , , on May 28, 2017 by MISANTHROPIST

A while back I was writing about the women in my life. I accepted whatever loses occurred as it’s part of meeting people. I’ve played the game enough to know there are always fall outs. It’s part of life and while I may miss them as people I’m not going be upset about it. What I did not expect however was one to come back. 

I say that but I ended the post ‘A minus’ by saying that I’d hear from her again, maybe I partly knew this would happen. I’m guessing it didn’t work out why that guy she was seeing. I’m not really a fan of hot and cold, generally I stay warm. That chemistry I was unsure of is right back, this is why I kick myself for not trusting my gut at times.

We’ve spoken for the last few days and it’s nice to hear from her. She definitely wants something. I know what it is. She’s only half shy about it. I’ve been nice, I haven’t thrown her suddenly reappearance in her face. It is kinda funny to me that now she wants to know. This isn’t the first time with her, she goes away and comes back. 

Always comes back. I had thought last time was the last time. I entertain her because I like her as a person, I mean yeah we could fuck but I don’t have to. She’s good company clothed or not. Just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Men often complain that women don’t make their intentions clear, this is not the case with her.

She ended up asking me to go out, I discovered that we have very similar tastes in food which makes things smoother. One thing I do like about her is she’s not hard to please. We’ll have a nice night whatever we end up doing. I will go out with her as a friend and see what kind of night we have. As I see it there’s a reason she keeps coming back. I see no harm in spending some time with her.



We sat by the ocean.

Posted in Useless information. with tags , , , on May 25, 2015 by MISANTHROPIST

The subconscious is a powerful thing. Now usually I don’t dream or just don’t remember it, the mind has funny ways of torturing us. After what I’ve heard from others I’m quite glad that I generally don’t dream. The other night my mind decided to play one of my favourite scenes. It was a nice memory, we sat by the ocean. Drinking devassa, eating shrimp, laughing and being happy. I miss that. Now my happiness shouldn’t be dependant on another person but I won’t lie, sometimes it is.

The torturous part was that we may never do that again. That bothers me. Maybe it’s because there are so few people in the world I want to share that with. I’m kinda opening up to going out again. So far going out has been disappointing. It’s always the same. You drink, you talk shit and you go home. At the end of the night you’re just as alone and disappointed as you were when you began.


It’s Sunday again.

Posted in England, Gaming, General, Unemployment, Useless information. with tags , , , , , , , , , on February 16, 2014 by MISANTHROPIST

Sundays for me mean one thing and one thing only, boredom. I don’t have anything to do around the house or outside the house. Gaming has kinda been ruined for me, I can’t sit and play games. I’d put my guitar on but I can’t even be bothered with that. Last night was the beginning of an off day for me, as if Sunday couldn’t get any worse. I got to thinking last night which is something I should have probably avoided. It looks like I’ll be writing today and by writing I don’t mean posting a spiderman meme with a relevant title.

I woke up, put on coffee, put some music on and had a cigarette. That is literally all I’ve done today. The only friend I can be bothered to see is out-of-town so I’m not out today. Yesterday I was considering being more social but if it means I have to sit in my friend’s house and watch him play FIFA 14 for hours I’ll pass. Same goes for Call of Duty. The way I saw it I can go out and find new friends or just go see old ones. This is all irrelevant seeing as my priority should really be looking for work. I’m not sure if I wrote that for you or for me.


Posted in Foods, General, Misanthropy, People, Uncategorized, Unpopular Opinions., Useless information. with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on October 1, 2013 by MISANTHROPIST

Recently I went out with an old friend from college, good guy, remember how I’ve said before that you may end up with about five real friends? He’s definitely one of them. We went into London for some food and drinks together. I’ve not really eaten out many places seeing as I spent a majority of my time preoccupied with America and going there, I’ve heard of Nando’s but I think I mistook it for a Mexican/Portuguese fusion restaurant that I used to go by a few years back. Apparently I was completely wrong about that.

I was surprised to discover that it is basically an upscale chicken shop, that threw me a little. I’m not complaining about their food at all. It’s chicken and chicken is good even though their hottest or second hottest sauce was not hot at all. Their sides and other food is good too. It just wasn’t at all what I expected. To be honest If I’d knew what the place was I would have gone to Wagamama or that sushi place. The 02 dome in London has a lot to choose from. I guess I was a little annoyed that Nando’s wasn’t quite as good as I thought it’d be.

As I said I don’t find anything really wrong with Nando’s, I enjoyed the food but I think the problem was that Nando’s is talked up by so many people, including my friends. That led me to expect more. Remind me to rarely listen to people’s recommendations. I basically let him choose since he knows the place better than I do. Well I think next time I’m going to go for some Japanese food or steak. I’ve done Nando’s once and to be honest it will be a while before I go back there.

I had some Starbucks before the meal and my friend ordered a skinny latte, it was my duty to give him shit for it considering he’s already done a fucking good job at dropping weight. He’s a big guy or was at college so he’s done well in his quest to drop pounds. More power to him. After the meal we went for drinks and I discovered he drinks cider instead of beer. I love the cider myself, especially the newer fruit mixes but they don’t warrant the price you pay for them.

My friend is very middle class, in keeping with his family’s disposable income I usually end up sampling some sort of strange food or alcohol when I’m there or just something I’ve never tried before that point, examples of this include bambi burger (venison), 120% rum and many more. My friend is generally an interesting and generous guy, he got me into the Fallout series. While Nando’s itself was a disappointment the day/evening was good. Me and this guy have a lot of catching up to do.